She was less than 2 months pregnant. She’s having the remains cremated and it’s undecided w/what will happen to the remains. She also had a feeling that it was a boy, so she named it after her grandfather.
What is something thoughtful or useful that I can do for her and the baby?
The hospital that she went to cremated the sac w/the fetus in it. It was probably 2-3 inches long.
when we lost our baby due to abortion from being rapedd even tho i had made the choice it was extremly hard i still felt as if i hadnt said goodby my way of working through the rape and loss of what could of been was to create a memory box
the memory box had
an angel with no face to represent my baby
a lil blanket
an outfit i hand made
a framed photo from the ultrasound
many many letters to her (i to felt it was a girl)
when it all got to much i would write my partner wrote aswell it was our way of copping with it all
looking back im not sure how i got through it without our box i didnt want support as i needed time to heal myself i found it very hard to be touched by others and i screamed when peopl.e told me they understood so be carfull in what you say but just let her know your there for when she is ready